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How to Find True Love is a holistic, empowering, and practical guide to finding lasting love in the midst of a broken dating culture.

This book will empower and inspire you to transform your dating journey and discover your hidden power to have the love you want!

  • "When I first met Francesca, I really loved her perspective on love and relationships. I later learned that my friends were sharing her episode on my podcast with their friends to help them better navigate their dating lives. And it worked! I’m grateful all those pearls of wisdom are now in this book!"

    SIMON SINEK, Optimist and New York Times Bestselling author of The Infinite Game and host of the podcast A Bit of Optimism

  • Picture of Bevy Smith, beautiful Black Woman in a bright purple dress

    "Francesca has written YOUR guide to finding TRUE LOVE! This book is inspirational yet practical. If you desire a loving, respectful relationship this book will give you the tools to secure your TRUE LOVE!"

    BEVY SMITH, Author of BEVELATIONS: Lessons From A Mutha, Auntie, Bestie and Host of SiriusXM’s “BEVELATIONS”

  • "In a world saturated with ideals and expectations about love, discovering what true connection means can often feel elusive. How to Find True Love invites you on an enlightening journey that blends mindset, heartset, soulset, and skillset to help you cultivate the deep, fulfilling relationships you are looking for.

    SARA NASSERZADEH, PhD, Author of Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love

  • "This isn’t just a book about finding love—it’s a book about finding yourself first, which is the foundation for everything else. Franny’s approach is rooted in self-awareness, self-advocacy, and deep respect for the journey each person must take in order to truly love and be loved. Whether you’re in a relationship or navigating the dating world, this book is a must-read for anyone ready to cultivate authentic, lasting love."

    PAUL C. BRUNSON, Relationship Expert, TV Host and Author

  • "At Real Love Ready we read a lot of relationship books. How to Find True Love is a standout. It is a guide to cultivate a relationship first and foremost with yourself and a guide to bringing more love and joy into your life, regardless of relationship status. Francesca navigates her readers through the dating world. She teaches how to date intentionally in order to make meaningful connections based on what you most need to build a lasting partnership while also aligning with your life’s highest purpose."

    ROBIN DUCHARME, CEO and Founder of Real Love Ready and Host of the Let’s Talk Love podcast

  • Francesca Hogi is a gold-standard love coach. Her methods are heart-centered, practical, and rooted in authenticity and How to Find True Love captures her essence beautifully. It provides readers with life-changing love lessons designed to help you grow into, not just a relationship, but also the best version of yourself."

    DAMONA HOFFMAN, Author of F the Fairy Tale and Relationship Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show

  • "If you’re single then you need this book in your life! It’s like my love bible! Read it, devour it, sleep next to it in bed every night! Thank me later!"

    LONDON HUGHES, Comedian, Actor, Screenwriter and Author of Living My Best Life, Hun

  • Julie Rice in a white shirt with colorful scarf

    "We’re led to assume our relationships will just work out. Franny has created a thoughtful, tangible user manual for finding and embracing love in every relationship. An important reminder that true love is an active practice."

    JULIE RICE, Co-Founder, SoulCycle and Peoplehood

  • "Franny's book beautifully captures the essence of true love—taking responsibility for yourself and all your parts to build meaningful connections that bring joy and enrich your life. I highly recommend it to anyone seeking a real relationship grounded in self-awareness, self-advocacy, and self-worth."

    AYCEE BROWN, Spiritual teacher, author, and host of Is My Aura On Straight? podcast

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