You already know it’s Cuffing Season, but it hasn’t yet reached its peak. That won’t come until 2019, when the combination of the desire to pair off during colder weather and the start of a new year create an online dating lollapalooza come January.

It all peaks on the busiest day of the year for online dating - the first Sunday of the New Year. It’s a well-established phenomenon year in and year out, and it tells us what we already know - when you’re single and don’t want to be, there’s no time of year like the beginning of the year to feel motivated to find love.

The New Year’s Resolution to find love leads to a flurry of dates in January leading up to Valentines Day in February.

It sounds like a great plan in theory, but in reality fewer than 10% of New Year’s Resolutions will succeed. Why? Because we try to use willpower to overcome our old habits, rather than forming a strategy to create lasting change. 

You can power through using your willpower for awhile, but willpower can only do much.

A few bad dates can be enough to completely sap your willpower and derail your hopes for finding love.

So what do you do if you want to find love in 2019? Or how about in 2018?? That’s right - 2018’s not over yet! You can absolutely meet your someone special in time to hang the mistletoe together.

Instead of making a resolution to find love 2019, try a more effective method.

Resolve to start seeing yourself as a love magnet, starting now. Resolve to examine whatever love blocks are standing between you and your dream relationship.

Some, if not all of those blocks are unconscious, but once you identify them, they begin to lose their power over you.

Resolve to make giving and receiving love your new habit. If you do that, the relationship you want will follow, guaranteed. You’ll attract a different kind of person, you’ll show up differently in your actions and your thoughts will align with what you want to happen, rather than what you fear might happen.

If you’re reading this and thinking “easier said than done”, I invite you to reserve a free 1-on-1 coaching session with me. No matter how far away love feels for you right now, love is possible for you. I’ve helped 100+ singles see what’s possible for them, and actually find it!

Bring me your biggest love challenge and I will show you how you can start to overcome it, starting today.

xo

Francesca