Posts tagged advice
Ep #28 Brice Izyah -- Winning At Life Through Authenticity

“Bitch, I am the gift.” Get ready for a laugh out loud, unfiltered conversation with @briceizyah, host of The Purple Pants podcast and former Survivor contestant. Brice opens up about growing up as an openly gay black man, his first-ever relationship, struggling with authenticity and dating, and breaking the pattern of only being attracted to men who aren’t that into him. 

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Ep #27 *Minisode* Francesca Hogi -- What To Do When You're Only Attracted To People Who Aren't Attracted To You

“We want to be right about what we believe more than we want to be happy.” Francesca breaks down what’s really going on when you’re stuck in a dating pattern of only being attracted to people who aren’t that into you. Not only the why of why this happens, but what to do about it so you can break this pattern and find the love you deserve.

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Ep #26 *Minisode* Francesca Hogi -- Does Love Only Happen When You're Not Looking For It?

“Wanting love doesn’t make you desperate, wanting love makes you human.” In this solo episode, Francesca addresses the cliche “you’ll find love when you stop looking for it.” She breaks down the importance of the energy motivating your search for love as the determinative factor in finding the relationship you want. 

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Ep #25 *Minisode* Francesca Hogi -- Are Progressive Women Totally Screwed When It Comes To Dating Men?

“If we give our energy to the people we don’t want, we take that away from ourselves, and from the people we do want.” In this solo episode, Francesca tackles the issues facing single progressive women who want to date feminist men who aren’t racist and truly believe in equality. “Performative wokeness” and fake feminists are a problem in modern dating, and she breaks down how to avoid the fakers and connect with men of true character. 

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Ep #19 *Minisode* Francesca Hogi -- The 4 Dating Archetypes: Avoider, Looper, Surfer or Sailor?

Are you an Avoider, a Looper, a Surfer or a Sailor? Francesca breaks down the 4 Dating Archetypes she’s identified, and how to change your type (if you want to!) to make it easier to find love. She also explains her concept of "love confidence", how your Archetype corresponds to your love confidence, and how to begin to develop yours starting now.

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